I think real girls do whatever the fuck they want. They get bruised, or they don't.
They can stay clean and love art, or they stay clean while studying, or they can get dirty as an auto mechanic or they can get bruised and punch face in the ring. Whatever.
They have fun, or they don't. Whatever.
What's important is that they are the ones calling the shots.
Gender roles are so yesterday, but so is putting traditionally "masculine" qualities over and above traditionally fem ones. We can have both tough and sensitive personal attributes OR either in dominance and be more authentic than ever.